Alma M. Naanes, 96, of Rt. 2, Erie died Sunday, August 5, 1990, at the Labette County Medical Center, Parson, after a brief illness. She had entered the hospital Friday.
She was born May 13, 1894, in Cleveland, Kingman County, Kansas, to William and Millie Hess Messenger. She grew up as a part of a pioneer farm family and was graduated from Kingman High School. She attended Bethany College of Lindsborg and taught in a one-room school for a year before her marriage.
She and Edward Naanes were married April 20, 1914 in Salina. They lived in Kingman County until 1949. Mrs. Naanes performed secretarial work for her husband while he was Kingman County superintendent of schools. After Mr. Naanes retired in 1949, they moved to his family home in rural Erie. They celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary in 1964. Mr. Naanes died in 1970. Mrs. Naanes remained on the farm near Erie until her death.
She was an active member of the Erie Federated Church, the Centerville Club, the Erie Monday Study Club, and was a life member of the Kansas Women's Day Club.
Survivors include a son, Rex, of rural Erie; four grandchildren; and two great-grandchildren. She was preceded in death by a son, Theodore, who died at the age of 15; a daughter, Dorothy Campbell who died in 1989; and three brothers and three sisters. The service was at 10 a.m. Wednesday at the Erie Federated Church with the Rev. Lee Wiersma officiating. A committal service was at 4 p.m. Wednesday at the Cleveland Cemetery in Kingman County with the Rev. Oren McClure officiating. The family suggests memorials to the Erie Federated Church.
The Erie Record, p. 3; Erie, Neosho County, Kansas.
The Leader Courier Newspaper - Kingman, Kingman County, Kansas - August 7, 1981:
“Virginia Messenger Stapley. Virginia Messenger Stapley, 81, sister of the late Fred and William Messenger, died August 3, 1981, in Stillwater, Okla. She had been in a rest home there for a number of years. Graveside services were Thursday morning at the Cleveland Cemetery with the Livingston Mortuary in charge. The Rev. Dale Gates officiated.
Dr. Stapley was a pioneer in child development education. She spent 39 years in this field, and was head of the department at Oklahoma State University at the time of her retirement in 1965. She held a BS degree from the Kansas State University at Manhattan; her MS from Iowa State University at Ames, Iowa; and her PH.D. from the Teachers College, Columbia University, New York. She had many professional honors, among them were several scholastic honoraries; and listings in four “Who’s Who’”s, ---of American Women, in Behavioral Sciences, in Education, and in the Southwest. She traveled in Europe researching child development programs there. She saw the department in Stillwater develop from the time she arrived in 1926 as the sole staff member to teach child training, to the extensive program now offered.
Virginia Messenger Stapley was born May 30, 1900, in Basil, a daughter of William Henry and Millie Hess Messenger. She attended Belle Forest rural school and was graduated from the Kingman High School in 1918. She was married to Edward R. Stapley, then Dean at OSU, in the spring of 1951. He died in July, 1977. She had been ill since that time. Her activities always included an active interest in the Methodist Church. Only survivor is a sister, Alma Naanes of Erie.”.
Don Messenger passed away on Tuesday, August 2, 2016 at his home in Garden City, Kansas. He was born on March 13, 1925 in Scott County, Kansas. He was the son of Arno & Blanche (Brown) Messenger.
Don attended Scott County rural schools and Scott County High School.
In 1946, he was drafted by the United States Army becoming a veteran of World War II, serving in Korea. Through the GI Bill, Don earned his pilot’s license. He loved flying planes.
On November 6, 1949, he married Wauneta Strickert in Scott County, on Wauneta’s Parent’s farm. They were married 66 years and 9 months, and he still fondly called her “Honey.”
Don was a farmer and stockman first and foremost. He always said he was nearest to God when he was out in the fields farming. His motto was, “If man can do it so can I” and he did. His skills in carpentry, plumbing, and electricity proved to be very useful throughout his life.
Don loved his family and they remember that love, and all the ways he showed it. His children never had to question if they were going to church on Sunday, it was understood that the family was going. Wauneta made many family meals over the past 66 years and Don never left the table without saying, “That was a good meal.” Don loved to dance, play cards with family and friends, and driving fast.
Always active in the community, Don was a member of the VFW, American Legion, The Elks, Eagle’s, and Finney County Senior Center. Don also served on the Board of Directors for Golden Plains Credit Union and the Farmers Home Administration. Don was a member of Trinity Lutheran Church. He served as an Elder and an usher for Sunday services. Don was also a member of the Board of Education and served as church secretary.
Survivors include his wife, Wauneta; two sons Charles (Chuck) & wife Cindy Messenger and Chad & wife Cheryl Messenger of Garden City; a daughter Dawnnel & husband Frank Francis of Garden City; seven Grandchildren; nine Great Grandchildren; a brother Kenneth & wife Shirley Messenger of Grove, Ok.: a sister Peri & husband Bill Neill of Hartville, Mo.; an aunt Gertrude Brown of Scott City, Ks.; and two Sisters-In-Law Betty Messenger of Garden City, Ks. and Vada (Perky) Messenger of Republic, Mo.
Don was preceded in death by a daughter Donnetta Fay who died in January 1953; his parents, two brothers Harry Messenger and Arnold (Lee) Messenger; a sister Glenda Burgess; and his Step-Mother Ruth Uzzell.
He will be missed greatly, by his family.
Funeral Service will be held at 10:30 a.m. on Saturday, August 6, 2016 at Trinity Lutheran Church in Garden City with Pastor Lyle Stuehrenberg officiating. A graveside service will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Saturday, August 6 at the Scott County Cemetery in Scott City with military rites conducted by the Kansas Army National Guard Honor Guard and the American Legion District #8 Honor Guard. Friends may call from Noon to 8:00 p.m. on Thursday and from 9:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m. on Friday and the family will be at the Garnand Funeral Home from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. on Friday to visit with friends. The family request memorials given to Trinity Lutheran Church or to the Finney County Senior Center both in care of Garnand Funeral Home of Garden City.