My Mother's tribute to her brother-in-law Fred Sargent, upon his death....
In 1939 I had met Fred Sargent first and then met Dick Sargent just before they left to bike around Europe. On the boat going over Dick met Janet first as she was heading for a summer on the Experiment. And then Fred met her. In 1941 Dick and I married in March, Fred and Janet in August, and our lives and families have been intertwined ever since. Dear Fred was planning to be a doctor and was so loving and caring about people that I felt he had chosen well. His sense of humor and complete lack of bigotry or snobbery are qualities I shall never forget. He was a wonderful brother-in-law, and true friend. I loved him very much.
When my father started dating my mother and they were getting 'serious' he had been selling insurance to members of his family.This was considered a responsible job by his family, as he was just 'starting out' However, my mother didn't think that qualified as a real job at all. So he went to a company he knew about - the Bridgeport Brass Company - his grandfather was president of the company at the time. However, I do not believe he (FJ Kingsbury) knew that his grandson had applied to work there. The first day of work he brought out his lunchbox at noon, with the other employees in the factory, and when he opened it he saw all the sandwiches had their crusts cut off. (I think they were cucumber sandwiches). The lunch had been made by the cook, and this was her custom. Needless to say he put away the lunch and went hungry that day!
After a couple of weeks his grandfather found out his grandson was working on the shop floor, called him to his office and offered him a management position. But my father wanted to stay where he was, and so turned down an opportunity to advance in the manufacturing world.
A year or so later America entered WW II. The Brass company employees were given a deferment because they were doing 'war work'. My father was one of the first to receive this deferment. There were photos, interviews, because he was among the first. After a few months the process became routine and it no longer merited special attention.1
Richard C Sargent
Hartland - Richard Collier Sargent Jr, 71, died Friday morning in the hospice room at Mount Ascutney Hospital in Windsor. He was born April 5, 1914, in New Haven, Conn., son of Richard and Ruth (Kingsbury) Sargent Sr. He received his education in New Haven. He attended Andover Preparatory School and graduated from Taft Preparatory School. He later attended Bates College.
He married Barbara Male in New Haven, on March 8, 1941. He was supervisor at the Bridgeport Brass Co. in Bridgeport for 24 years. He had lived Trumbull, Conn., for 24 years before moving to Harland in 1970. He was a town meeting representative in Trumbull, Conn., clerk of the fire department, and treasurer and member of the board of trustees at Nichols Methodist Church in Trumbull. He was a member of the Woodstock Country Club, the 70 Plus Ski Club, the Hartland Nature Club and the Republican Town Committee in Hartland. He was treasurer of the Hartland Congregational Church, and chairman of the Hartland Board of Listers for nine years.
Survivors include his wife of Hartland; a son, Richard C. Sargent III of Hartland; three daughters, Linda Reinfeld of Winchester, Mass., Carol Dunning of Hopkinton, N.H., and Joan Sarget of Boulder, Colo.; a brother, Dr. Fredrick Sargent of San Fransicso, Cal.; six grandchildren; and 12 neices and nephews.
A service will be held April 27 at 3 p.m. at the Hartland Congregational Church, with the Rev. Susanna Griefen officiating. Following cremation, burial will be held in the Evergreen Cemetery in New Haven. Contributions may be made to the Mount Ascutney Hospital or the Hartland Congregational Church. The Knight Funeral Home in Windsor is in charge of the funeral arrangements.
JBS, during a whooping cough epidemic, wrote to his wife Florence who was visiting in Lakewood NJ:
...This forenoon I spent an hour or more playing with Lawton, Bradford and with Bessie's older children.1
When George was a student he lived at 51 Elm Street in New Haven. He lived there from 1883-1886. By 1887 he was living at 542 Chapel Street. In 1889 he moved to 251 Church St.
In 1900 the George Lewis Sargent family lived at 251 Church St. He had 5 maids from Ireland. (It is now a parking lot across from the Junior League Shop 1975).
GLS and family lived at #256 Edward St. After his second marriage he moved to 360 Edwards Street with his 7 children. Russell Sargent and Margaret his wife had built that house.
Recollections of his grandson RCS Jr.: The RCS Sr family was a matriarchy - they very rarely saw the GL Sargent family.14
George Lewis Sargent (Uncle Lewis to most of us) died after a long illness early in the morning of Saturday, February 5th, in his 82nd year. He was the seventh of the twelve children of Joseph Bradford Sargent and Elizabeth Collier Lewis, and was born in New Britain, Conn., on July 26, 1862. Before the next child was born the family moved to New Haven.
With his brothers Ned and Joe he attended Hopkins Grammar School. All three boys were withdrawn from the school when Mr Cushing, the rector, threatened expulsion of Ned for something the boy had not done. (Too late Mr Cushing learned that he had been misinformed and apologized to Ned.) The boys completed their college preparatory work at Hillhouse High School, Joe and Lewis entering the Scheffield Scientific School of Yale a year after Ned in the Class of 1881. Joe did not complete the course (Yale later awarding him the degree) but Lewis graduated before his 19th birthday and then took the two-year course in the Yale Law School as further preparation for the family business.
Lawn tennis was a relatively new game in this country in 1883 when he becae the Yale champion and represented Yale in singles in the first intercollegiate tennis tournament at Hartford. (A Harvard man won it, a round robin affair.) Yale's representatives in doubles were Walter Camp and Henry W Slocum, later national singles champion.
In 1883 he entered the employ of Sargent & Company, was treasurer for thirty years from 1887, vice president for ten years and president for the last year of his active participation in the business, continuing however as a director till 1940.
He was married on April 28, 1886 to Alice Bessie Forbes, daughter of Charles Forbes of New York, who died in 1902. They had eight children. He was married on October 24, 1911, to Margaret Berrien Motte, the widow of his brother Russell and the daughter of Ellis Loring Motte of Boston, who survives him. Eleanor Strong, his oldest child, died in childhood. The other seven are Richard Collier, Sydney Forbes, Dorothy (Mrs Henry J Wiser), Hilda (Mrs Roswell G Ham), Mary Denny (Mrs William H McCance), Howard Lewis and Charles Forbes. Barbara Louise (Mrs Ludwig K Morrehead) is a niece and step-daughter. Seventeen grandchildren and three great grandchildren also survive him
Uncle Lewis Sargent, who died on February 5th, was endowed with a very keen sense of humor. He was a good player of games and sports. His friends called him a lucky player, but his ability to think clearly in the stress of competition made him a good 'match' player. He played his best in matches and never seemed to get rattled.
He and Uncle Bruce Fenn were members of the Friday Night Club of a social-literary nature which met in the homes of its members.
For many years he resided at 251 Church Street, New Haven, next door to the Henry B's at 247. When then brothers decided to have a telephone they shared an instrument, which was placed at the GL's. The obvious convenience for the latter when they wanted to make a telephone call was perhaps offset by the necessity of going next door to notify the HB's when one of the latter was wanted to answer a call.
The fence between the two back yards was removed to make one playground for all the children. When one of the brothers was out of town the other was looked to by both families in emergencies. One Sunday when HB was away GL was appealed to get rid of a terrible odor at 247. GB found the problem was a bit beyond him and after considerable effort got hold of a plumber, who solved the difficulty by removing a deceased feline from the cold air pipe to the furnace.
---written for Sargentrivia by Ziegler Sargent.
The following excerpt from Sargentrivia, the family newspaper, illustrates the kind of activity women would participate in:
Ruth Kingsbury Sargent, Jane Cater Sargent, Elizabeth Collier Sargent, Elizabeth Day Sargent, Laura Rice Deming and Agnes W.B. Sargent were joint hostesses at Our Society meeting on April 21st at Ruth's home, Ridge Road, North Haven, Conn. Our Society is an ancient charitable sewing club founded in 1831 or 1832 to provide women's and children's garments for the needy. The membership is now limited to 130, with preference given to daughters of members in the filling of vacancies. Because of its size only 3 or 4 meetings (afternoon and supper) are held each year. To-day the work is concentrated on diapers. In the early days some gentlemen are known to have attended the meetings as guests, but for more than a hundred years all males have been excluded. Perhaps their presence was found a hindrance to the production of garments.
Arthur performed in The School Girl, a musical play, in two acts, composed by Leslie Stuart (with additional songs by Paul Rubens) with a book by Henry Hamilton and Paul M. Potter, and lyrics by Charles H. Taylor and others. It was first produced on 9 May 1903 by George Edwardes and Charles Frohman at the Prince of Wales Theatre in London where it ran for 333 performances.
I am assuming he played in the states, probably 1905. He was Tubby Bedford.8