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Nathalie Anne Smith1

#46126, (1940-1986)
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Children with Thomas Lester White

Biography

  • Nathalie Anne Smith was born on 28 October 1940.1
  • She died on 26 August 1986 at age 45.1
  • She was buried in Valhalla Cemetery, Bel-Nor, Missouri. Plot: 6/X/1.2

Other Information

Citations

  1. [S6354] Laird, Norma, compiler, family tree titled "Baldwin Family Tree", published by Ancestry, www.ancestry.com, from database ID 91104524, viewed Jun 2019 , .
  2. [S2411] Find A Grave: Valhalla Cemetery, Bel-Nor, Missouri, Nathalie Anne Smith White, created by Tami Glock, added Jan 2018, memorial number 186532029.

Thomas Montgomery White1

#46127, (about 1970-2019)
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Thomas Montgomery White
1970-2019

Parents

Biography

  • Thomas Montgomery White was born about 1970.2
  • He died on 6 May 2019 at age ~49.1
  • Tommy's Doubt (from a blog by his sister Anne)

    My brother, Tommy, recently died. When a loved one dies, sharing stories with family and friends can be very meaningful and healing. I’ve been listening to memories of how he touched people’s lives in ways I didn’t know. I have also shared my own stories. One of these times was at his funeral. When I don’t have words, many times I express myself with music. So I played a piece on the piano that had been going through my head since the news of his death. It’s a piece he practiced over and over when he was a young teenager. Many of his friends had no idea he played the piano.

    When our daughter was in town after graduation, she was searching for something and came across a cassette tape of herself playing piano at age seven. Finding our tape player in the basement, I dusted it off and brought it up so we could listen to her tape. But there was already a tape inside. It was of a Palm Sunday program our family offered at church in 1983. Pressing “play”, we heard my mother on the piano. Then Tommy played a piece, which made me shudder, because it was the exact same piece I played at his funeral. After our mother’s death in 1986, Tommy slowly stopped participating in things which had previously brought him joy, such as music and tennis. I believe that if we bury our gifts from God, we will not be able to find deep joy. Someone in my prayer group today felt as if striving for joy is a bit frivolous and selfish, which led to a discussion about joy versus happiness. Some people seem happy when they are really hurting inside. I think of joy as deeper. I can still feel joy even if I am having a bad day. Looking for God in both good times and bad has brought me a sense of peace and joy that shines through all darkness and brings me hope in resurrection and new life.

    I will always remember how deeply my brother searched for God. One day when Tommy seemed open to deeper discussion, I took a risk and told him how unusual it was for me to see butterflies every day for a week: https://breadforthejourney.blog/2018/04/02/simple-faith-in-mysteries/ But all he said was, with his sarcastic tone, “That’s like when you buy a new car and then you see the same kind of car everywhere.” He wanted clear answers and never understood how simple it is. God is so close. He is always with us. We have to be willing to open our hearts and listen, look for God in everything, and be willing to embrace his mysterious ways.

    When I walked an outdoor labyrinth in January, walking in, I thought of the winding path of my life. I walked over twigs and stepped on pine needles, bumps and frozen spots. The gently falling snow created the environment of a living snow globe. Walking out, a thin, spotty layer of snow covered twigs and rubber mulch in the path. The mess of winter was not covered by the white flakes completely, but enough for me to think of “new life”…baptism by snow! Then a tiny, sharply cold single snowflake touched my lips. I suddenly awakened and felt it as a kiss from God. To someone else, maybe it wouldn’t have seemed as special. But for me, that day and that moment, it was a kiss from God. And I’m holding on to tha.3

Obit Notice

An obituary was published in Lupton Chapel Inc

Thomas Montgomery White

May 6, 2019

Monday, May 6, 2019, at the age of 49. Beloved husband of Cynthia Coffelt White; loving father of Nathalie and Margaret White; dear son of Thomas Lester White (Kathryn) and the late Nathalie Anne White; dear brother of Allison White and Anne W. Peacock (Stephen); dear brother-in-law and uncle.

Mr. White was a graduate of St. Louis County Day School, Class of 1987; The College of Wooster and received his MBA's at Washington University and St. Louis University. He was actively involved in numerous civic endeavors, but foremost was his love of family and friends.

Services: The Funeral Service will be conducted at Ladue Chapel Presbyterian Church, 9450 Clayton Road, Ladue on Thursday, May 9, at 10:00 a.m. Interment Valhalla Cemetery. Memorials appreciated to Ladue Chapel Presbyterian Church or to the Nathalie Smith White Scholarship Fund at Drury University.

The family will receive friends at THE LUPTON CHAPEL, 7233 Delmar Blvd., University City, on Wednesday, from 4:00 p.m. until 8:00 p.m.

Services

Visitation

Wednesday, May 8, 2019

4:00 PM - 8:00 PM

Lupton Chapel

7233 Delmar Blvd.

University City, MO 63130

Funeral Service

Thursday, May 9, 2019

10:00 AM - 11:00 AM

Ladue Presbyterian Church

9450 Clayton Raod

St. Louis, MO 63124

Interment

Thursday, May 9, 2019

11:30 AM

Valhalla Cemetery

7600 St. Charles Rock Rd.

Pagedale, MO 63133.

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Other Information

Citations

  1. [S2411] Find A Grave: Valhalla Cemetery, Bel-Nor, Missouri, Thomas Montgomery White, created by Kathie, addedMay 2019, memorial number 198935473.
  2. [S4227] White, Thomas Montgomery, Lupton Chapel Inc, from funeral home, 6 May 2019 obituary notice, luptonchapel.com.
  3. [S6895] Peacock, Anne, Bread for the Journey, a personal/spiritual blog, breadforthejourney.blog, written 22 Jul 2019.

Thomas Lester White1

#46128
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Children with Nathalie Anne Smith (b. 28 October 1940, d. 26 August 1986)

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Citations

  1. [S4227] White, Thomas Montgomery, Lupton Chapel Inc, from funeral home, 6 May 2019 obituary notice, luptonchapel.com.

Allison White1

#46129
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Parents

Citations

  1. [S4227] White, Thomas Montgomery, Lupton Chapel Inc, from funeral home, 6 May 2019 obituary notice, luptonchapel.com.

Anne White1

#46130
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Parents

Citations

  1. [S4227] White, Thomas Montgomery, Lupton Chapel Inc, from funeral home, 6 May 2019 obituary notice, luptonchapel.com.

Stephen Peacock1

#46131
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Citations

  1. [S4227] White, Thomas Montgomery, Lupton Chapel Inc, from funeral home, 6 May 2019 obituary notice, luptonchapel.com.

Victoria Peacock1

#46132
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Parents

Citations

  1. [S6894] Ladue Chapel Presbyterial Church, a website for the church, laduechapel.org, Ladue Chapel - Staff.

Andrew Peacock1

#46133
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Parents

Citations

  1. [S6894] Ladue Chapel Presbyterial Church, a website for the church, laduechapel.org, Ladue Chapel - Staff - Mrs Anne Peacock.

Kristy Saccomano1

#46134
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Parents

Citations

  1. [S6897] Emery County Progress, Utah, Newspaper, Alan Craig Saccomano obituary notice, published 19 Dec 2006, viewed on-line at FindAGrave 167406552.

Joey Penovich1

#46135
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  • Last Edited: 19 September 2024 16:46:29

Citations

  1. [S6897] Emery County Progress, Utah, Newspaper, Alan Craig Saccomano obituary notice, published 19 Dec 2006, viewed on-line at FindAGrave 167406552.

Brian Saccomano1

#46136
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Parents

Citations

  1. [S6897] Emery County Progress, Utah, Newspaper, Alan Craig Saccomano obituary notice, published 19 Dec 2006, viewed on-line at FindAGrave 167406552.

Carla (née unknown) Saccomano1

#46137
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Citations

  1. [S6897] Emery County Progress, Utah, Newspaper, Alan Craig Saccomano obituary notice, published 19 Dec 2006, viewed on-line at FindAGrave 167406552.

Kevin Saccomano1

#46138
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Parents

Citations

  1. [S6897] Emery County Progress, Utah, Newspaper, Alan Craig Saccomano obituary notice, published 19 Dec 2006, viewed on-line at FindAGrave 167406552.

Maranda (née unknown) Saccomano1

#46139
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  • Last Edited: 19 September 2024 16:46:29

Citations

  1. [S6897] Emery County Progress, Utah, Newspaper, Alan Craig Saccomano obituary notice, published 19 Dec 2006, viewed on-line at FindAGrave 167406552.

Joey Penovich1

#46140
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Parents

Citations

  1. [S6897] Emery County Progress, Utah, Newspaper, Alan Craig Saccomano obituary notice, published 19 Dec 2006, viewed on-line at FindAGrave 167406552.

Jordan Penovich1

#46141
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Parents

Citations

  1. [S6897] Emery County Progress, Utah, Newspaper, Alan Craig Saccomano obituary notice, published 19 Dec 2006, viewed on-line at FindAGrave 167406552.

Bailey Saccomano1

#46142
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Parents

Citations

  1. [S6897] Emery County Progress, Utah, Newspaper, Alan Craig Saccomano obituary notice, published 19 Dec 2006, viewed on-line at FindAGrave 167406552.

Cameron Saccomano1

#46144
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Citations

  1. [S6897] Emery County Progress, Utah, Newspaper, Alan Craig Saccomano obituary notice, published 19 Dec 2006, viewed on-line at FindAGrave 167406552.

Judy Alexander1

#46147
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Parents

Citations

  1. [S6228] Press-Enterprise, Riverside, CA, Newspaper, Frances Eliabeth Alexander obituary notice, published 6 & 7 Jul 2013, viewed on-line at Legacy.com.

Bill Bengtson1

#46148
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  • Last Edited: 19 September 2024 16:46:29

Citations

  1. [S6228] Press-Enterprise, Riverside, CA, Newspaper, Frances Eliabeth Alexander obituary notice, published 6 & 7 Jul 2013, viewed on-line at Legacy.com.

Faye Alexander1

#46149
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Parents

Citations

  1. [S6228] Press-Enterprise, Riverside, CA, Newspaper, Frances Eliabeth Alexander obituary notice, published 6 & 7 Jul 2013, viewed on-line at Legacy.com.

Michael McDermott1

#46150
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  • Last Edited: 19 September 2024 16:46:29

Citations

  1. [S6228] Press-Enterprise, Riverside, CA, Newspaper, Frances Eliabeth Alexander obituary notice, published 6 & 7 Jul 2013, viewed on-line at Legacy.com.